Summary: The duration of a baby’s crying decreases significantly after five weeks of age, but crying remains an important part of a child’s communication repertoire after the age of six months.
Source: Aarhus University
When will my infant child stop crying so much?
If you are a new parent who, in a more or less sleep-deprived state, googles this question, then the answer could reassure you.
Many top Google hits will refer you to an old study which concludes that infant crying normally peaks at around the age of six weeks, after which it decreases markedly and stabilizes at a low level after three months.
Typically referred to as the “cry curve,” parents might expect their infants to cry radically less after the initial peak. However, a new study from Denmark, challenges this “cry curve” pattern, by pooling data from parents in 17 different countries.
“We’ve created two mathematical models that reasonably represent the available data. Neither of them show that the duration of crying falls so markedly after five weeks, which is what is otherwise seen in the graphs that are presented to parents. The available data shows that crying is still a significant part of many infants’ repertoire after six months,” says Christine Parsons, who is an associate professor at the Department of Clinical Medicine at Aarhus University.
Widely used cry curve
The researchers behind the study have compiled data from 57 research articles from all over the world, in which parents have registered how much their infants cry every day.
The normal pattern of crying, the “cry curve” which parents are presently often referred to, is based on an American study from 1962, which only focuses on the first twelve weeks of a child’s life.
“It’s a graph that new parents are often presented with. If you google ‘infant crying’ you’ll see lots of images of this particular graph. Therefore, we thought it would be interesting to model all the available data to see what type of pattern best represents the data, and test if this is consistent with the original ‘cry curve,'” says Arnault-Quentin Vermillet, the first author of the article.
Important tool for clinicians
Crying is one of the first forms of communication used by infants to get their parents’ attention. The infant’s cognitive and emotional development is stimulated when parents react to the child’s signals appropriately.
New parents often seek help from the healthcare system if they are worried that their child is crying too much.
According to Christine Parsons, it is therefore important that both healthcare professionals and parents have a correct and precise understanding of normal patterns of crying for infants.
“For clinicians in particular, it’s important because their job is to help, support and reconcile the expectations of any worried parents. It’s important that clinicians have up-to-date data on what is normal for infant crying, so that they can best support new parents. When parents consider their child to cry excessively, this can be associated with negative consequences for both parent and child,” she explains.
Cry patterns vary a lot
A widely-used definition for excessive crying, or colic, is when a baby cries for more than 3 hours per day, more than 3 days over a week. In the first 6 weeks after birth, colic has been estimated as affecting between 17 and 25% of infants.
The researchers at Aarhus University have drawn up two new models for the infant cry pattern. One of them shows infant crying peaks after four weeks. The other shows that infants cry a lot and at a stable level during the first weeks, after which the level falls.
However, neither model indicates a steep decline, as otherwise appears to be the case from the “original cry pattern”.
According to Christine Parsons, another noteworthy finding in the study is how different crying patterns are among babies– both within and across national borders.
As an example, she mentions that the limited available data indicates children from non-Western countries such as India, Mexico and South Korea, cry less than children from English-speaking countries such as the United States, Great Britain and Canada.
Crying in the first 12 months of life: A systematic review and meta-analysis of cross-country parent-reported data and modeling of the “cry curve”
Crying is an ubiquitous communicative signal in infancy. This meta-analysis synthesizes data on parent-reported infant cry durations from 17 countries and 57 studies until infant age 12 months (N = 7580, 54% female from k = 44; majority White samples, where reported, k = 18), from studies before the end Sept. 2020.
Most studies were conducted in the United States, the United Kingdom, and Canada (k = 32), and at the traditional cry “peak” (age 5–6 weeks), where the pooled estimate for cry and fuss duration was 126 mins (SD = 61), with high heterogeneity.
Formal modeling of the meta-analytic data suggests that the duration of crying remains substantial in the first year of life, after an initial decline.