Summary: A new study reports, when faced to make a decision that benefits either a close friend or parent, young adults tend to put family first. Source: UCLA. If you’re a parent who feels your college-age children would choose their friends over you, a new UCLA psychology study has a reassuring message: You’re probably underestimating their loyalty to you. The psychologists demonstrated for the first time that when forced to make a decision that benefits either a parent or a close friend, young adults are more likely to choose the parent. “Our study suggests mom still matters,” said Jennifer Silvers, a UCLA assistant professor of psychology and senior author of the study, which is published online today in the journal Psychological Science. “Parents continue to have an enduring impact on their children as they become adults — and on their decision-making.” The study involved 174 people between the ages of 18 and 30. Each was asked to play a series of games that forced them to choose between the interests of a parent and a friend they chose. Each subject began with either $5 or 50 points, and was told to play as if the points could be redeemed for prizes, and the choices they made would increase or decrease their winnings. In half the rounds, all of the player’s gains went to the parent and all of the losses went to the friend. In the other rounds, all gains went to the friend and all losses to the parent. In each round, participants were shown 16 cards on a computer monitor, with the cards “face down.” On the side that was hidden, each card indicated that the subject had either won or lost a certain amount of money or a certain number of points. Participants could choose to turn over as many cards as they wanted until they chose to stop or until a card revealed they had lost cash or points. Most of the cards provided money or points, but a few resulted in losses. This meant the longer each participant chose to play each round, the more they helped one person they love and put the other person at risk. Each participant played 48 rounds. Before playing, each participant completed a 28-item questionnaire that gauged their feelings toward the parent and friend they chose. Overall, the surveys suggested the participants had strong, positive feelings toward both, but on average, the participants felt their relationships with friends were stronger. The experiment with the cards, however, revealed something different: When they knew they were playing the card game to benefit their parents, the participants were more than 25 percent more likely to turn over additional cards. In other words, they were substantially more likely to make choices to benefit their parents. (Researchers controlled for important variables, such as age, gender and the quality of the participants’ relationships.) “When push came to shove, they prioritized their parents,” Silvers said. “Even though not much was at stake, the preferences were quite consistent.” The researchers expected the bias toward parents would occur more among older subjects than younger ones, but the study found it occurred equally regardless of age. Results also were consistent between men and women. NeuroscienceNews.com image is in the public domain. The researchers expected the bias toward parents would occur more among older subjects than younger ones, but the study found it occurred equally regardless of age. Results also were consistent between men and women. Interviewed after the game, participants expressed ambivalence about the task they performed. “Many of them seemed conflicted,” said Joao Guassi Moreira, a doctoral student in Silvers’ laboratory and the study’s lead author. “Several said slight variations of, ‘Even though it was hard to not pay as much attention to my friend, I felt like I owed it to my parent, who has helped me so much.'” The researchers are interested in studying why young adults prioritized their parents over their closest friends and whether the phenomenon would be the same among young teenagers as well.See alsoFeaturedNeuroscience·January 22, 2020Glutamate in the brain has unexpected qualities [divider]About this neuroscience research article[/divider] Source: Stuart Wolpert – UCLA Publisher: Organized by NeuroscienceNews.com. Image Source: NeuroscienceNews.com image is in the public domain. Original Research: Abstract for “Parents Versus Peers: Assessing the Impact of Social Agents on Decision Making in Young Adults” by João F. Guassi Moreira, Sarah M. Tashjian, Adriana Galván, and Jennifer A. Silvers in Psychological Science. Published August 8 2018. doi:10.1177/0956797618778497 [divider]Cite This NeuroscienceNews.com Article[/divider] [cbtabs][cbtab title=”MLA”]UCLA”For Young Adults, Mom Still Matters.” NeuroscienceNews. NeuroscienceNews, 8 August 2018. <http://neurosciencenews.com/parents-young-adults-9675/>.[/cbtab][cbtab title=”APA”]UCLA(2018, August 8). For Young Adults, Mom Still Matters. NeuroscienceNews. Retrieved August 8, 2018 from http://neurosciencenews.com/parents-young-adults-9675/[/cbtab][cbtab title=”Chicago”]UCLA”For Young Adults, Mom Still Matters.” http://neurosciencenews.com/parents-young-adults-9675/ (accessed August 8, 2018).[/cbtab][/cbtabs] Abstract Parents Versus Peers: Assessing the Impact of Social Agents on Decision Making in Young Adults Young adulthood is a developmental phase when individuals must navigate a changing social milieu that involves considering how their decisions affect close others such as parents and peers. To date, no empirical work has directly evaluated how young adults weigh these relationships against one another. We conducted a preregistered experiment in which we pitted outcomes for parents against outcomes for friends. Participants (N = 174, ages 18–30 years) played two runs of the Columbia Card Task—one in which gains benefited a parent and losses were incurred by a friend and another in which the opposite was true. We also tested whether age, relationship quality, and reward type earned for parents and friends (simulated vs. real) acted as moderating influences on parent–friend prioritization. Results showed that individuals were more likely to make decisions that benefited a parent at the expense of a friend. Relationship quality and reward type moderated this effect, whereas age did not. [divider]Feel free to share this Neuroscience News.[/divider] Join our Newsletter I agree to have my personal information transferred to AWeber for Neuroscience Newsletter ( more information ) Sign up to receive the latest neuroscience headlines and summaries sent to your email daily from NeuroscienceNews.comWe hate spam and only use your email to contact you about newsletters. We do not sell email addresses. You can cancel your subscription any time.