Love's Mirror: Do We Choose Partners Like Ourselves?

Love's Mirror: Do We Choose Partners Like Ourselves?

By Neuroscience News

Opposites Don’t Actually Attract

Opposites Don’t Actually Attract

A landmark CU Boulder study disrupts a widely held belief about love and compatibility.

Birds of a Feather Flock Together

Birds of a Feather Flock Together

Over a century's worth of data involving millions of couples shows similar traits are more common in couples.

Diving Deep Into Human Traits

Diving Deep Into Human Traits

Between 82-89% of examined traits—including political beliefs and substance use habits—were more similar among partners.

Breaking Down Assumptions

Breaking Down Assumptions

Between 82-89% of examined traits—including political beliefs and substance use habits—were more similar among partners.

A Century-Long Glance Back

A Century-Long Glance Back

Using data as far back as 1903, researchers found that traits like political values and substance use habits showed significant correlations among couples.

The Exception to the Rule

The Exception to the Rule

Few traits, such as being a "morning lark" or "night owl", showed that opposites might occasionally attract.

Invisible Forces in Relationships

Invisible Forces in Relationships

Even rarely considered traits, like past sexual partners or childhood experiences, showed some degree of similarity among couples.

The Bigger Picture

The Bigger Picture

Beyond just couples, these findings can influence next-gen studies in genetics, sociology, and beyond, reshaping our understanding of human relationships.

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